Mommy Who

You are likely familiar with the word pivot when used in the context of changing plans. As a parent, “pivot” may bring upon dread and fear. Thoughts of spontaneous illness, an overlooked deadline or appointment in the calendar, uncooperative weather, and dare I say uncooperative behavior on the part of our kids(never!). I want to share a positive pivot I experienced this past week. It had been a fun-filled day in an event-packed week of school vacation. It was just past the start of nap time as we headed home after a library visit and a pancake lunch. As I approached our neighborhood, three out of four children were sweetly resting in the backseat. It is never my expectation that they will all be asleep at once for any amount of time in the car, even on the longest of road trips. However, to my surprise, my son fell asleep as we were about two minutes from our house. I drove past our street and made my way to the nearest drive-through for a refreshing tea. The kids got some much-needed rest, and I got some afternoon caffeine. A change in plans, or pivot, does not have to be negative. This seemingly mundane pivot is a reminder that we can set an example of flexibility. I could have gone home, woken the kids in a hurry, rushed them inside in their grogginess, because there’s always something to do. Our afternoon was much more productive and meaningful because of the rest. Have you had a “positive pivot”? Please share in the comments 🙂 Cherish the chaos.

Until next time,

Kira